Go From Hiding to Thriving!
Experience transformational change.
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Do you ever feel…
Doubtful.
There is something wrong with you? That you do not have what it takes to succeed?
Fatigued.
You do not know how to manage your energy levels and constantly worry you are going to run out of energy?
Frustrated.
You are the most capable person in the room but you hesitate to step up?
Fearful.
You are afraid of conflict and will go to great lengths to avoid it?
Silenced.
You do not speak out because you might regret something you said?
Uncomfortable.
You know you could lead the charge but being the leader gives you the hives?
Like hiding.
You prefer to remain invisible? You hide your true self?
Unsure.
You seem to have insecurities others do not appear to have?
Myths & Truths
Myth #1
You are too sensitive to the world around you.
Truth #1
You’re not too sensitive. There is no such thing as too sensitive. Your sensitivity was determined when you were born. You have exactly the right amount. Stop measuring yourself against your extroverted colleagues!
Myth #2
You have to change in order to succeed.
Truth #2
You don’t need to become someone different. You simply need to learn to accept who you are and to express yourself in ways that feel comfortable to you. Ever heard of Meryl Streep or Gwyneth Paltrow? How about Barack Obama, Nelson Mandela, Rosa Parks?
Myth #3
There is something wrong with you.
Truth #3
Introversion is not something to be overcome. You are enough. You are not too much. Just because you feel more deeply or socialize differently than 60% of the population doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you.
Come out of hiding! The world needs your gifts.
We have come to believe that being an introvert and/or Highly Sensitive Person eliminates us from certain activities and roles, that it prevents us from participating in or doing well at certain things in life.
And that is simply not the case.
“Welcome! Are you an introvert and/or a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? You’ve come to the right place.
I’m so glad you’re here. I’m Martina. I help HSPs with these qualities step into their natural power in work and life.
I am an international coach, business consultant, licensed psychotherapist and master intuitive specializing in resiliency based wellness. I am also an introvert and HSP who believed for years that there was something wrong with me. I struggled with constant fatigue, insecurities, and anxiety, though I appeared confident on the outside.
Through painful trial and error I figured out how to thrive as a professional and entrepreneur. I now have over thirty years experience helping introverts go from hiding to thriving. It’s my passion.”
Years ago, I had a job where my boss told me I should never be in sales again…
…because I was “Too Sensitive” I was crushed and humiliated. But I was also angry. I was not going to be eliminated from an entire profession just based on who I was. I was determined to understand what introversion was about. I zealously went on a mission to discover how to create a life in which I could express my ambitions, a life in which I could thrive. I learned to challenge the messages society gave me. Through lots of trial and error I figured it out.
Over the past 30 years, even though I am a sensitive introvert, I thrive in business. I love my work. I am a leader. I start conversations. I am visible online. I lead groups. I dance tango.
And I can show you, too, how to thrive in business, in life, in leadership positions, in group situations, in high visibility environments. I can teach you how to succeed in every situation that makes you feel insecure or not enough.
Introversion and/or sensitivity is not something to overcome.
There’s nothing wrong with you.
Show up.
You can learn to show up differently in your relationships.
Experience.
You can experience increased self-confidence.
Pace.
You can learn to manage your energies and pace yourself.
Feel good.
You can experience greater health, let go of anxieties, and thrive in business and life.
Evidence Based and Heart/Mind Centered
Get clear on your vision. What do you want to create? Do you want a new career path? Do you love your work but you are in the wrong environment? Do you want to show up differently in the environment you already work in? The path begins with awareness. Once you see the blocks that disempower you, you're on your way to change.
Confidence comes from within. It comes from being able to fully embrace who you are as an introvert and/or HSP. Uncover sources of strength you already possess and learn new tools. Gain the confidence to market your business or yourself in ways that feel comfortable to you. There is only one unique you. You need to become your best ally!
Courage naturally flows from Self-confidence: knowing who you are, standing behind your values. You have heard that courage is being scared and doing it anyway. That’s right. You can learn to find ways to come out of hiding- to express your courage in ways that feel safe to you.
Imagine what it would feel like to access your natural power, your confidence, your intuition, and your joy in every aspect of life. Imagine walking with your chin up, chest out, and heart open…everywhere you go.
“What’s the Word On The Street?….”
“Martina is a coach who truly has it all! She intuitively senses for what would fully support your growth. She’s not afraid to challenge you in a warm, caring way. Martina also offers practical and research based tips when it supports you. Not to mention she’s playful, patient, funny and has a range and depth that’s unmatched. Her sessions are truly magic. I haven’t left a session in the last 2 years without deeper awareness, feeling supported and a positive ripple effect in other areas of my life. I can confidently say her coaching has been the catalyst for dramatic growth and a fuller expression of me.”
~Deepti P., Leadership Development Professional
“I began working with Martina the first year in a new corporate position. My previous leadership positions were at non-profits. I struggled to fit in to my perception of the corporate culture as an introvert and sensitive woman. She was masterful in leading me through the process of claiming my unique gifts. I began to courageously show up as my most authentic self, allowing my sensitivity to guide me as a leader. I feel free to be playful and use humor and encourage others to be themselves. To my surprise, I was promoted!”
Charmelle E.- Senior Vice President
As a high-achiever in the corporate space, overriding my sensitivity and pushing it down became the norm. I did this for decades until my exhaustion called to me to acknowledge it. This journey of rediscovering your HSP and nurturing it… is for the brave! Martina is a master and a warrior as she takes you thru this process. She was there for me at every twist and turn as I navigated thru and sometimes even resisted! She is graceful, loving, patient and kind. Exactly what a weary beginner high- achiever needs.
A. Handley. ~ Executive Coach
Martina has a combination of warmth, presence, and astute observation that are ideal in any coach, and particularly valuable as a highly sensitive introvert. Within the first meeting, her facilitation and insight led to both realizations and empowerment. She is able to move and progress quickly even while taking time to really create space for the whole self, without feeling rushed. When I think of a coach to recommend without hesitation or reservation, Martina immediately comes to mind. I have cherished my opportunities to know and work with her and feel confident others looking for growth would also.Rebecca A. Eldredge, PhD ~ Feel Deeply, Live Completely
Working with Martina has been a life-changer. I lived my entire life believing I was an extrovert. I was plagued with fatigue and health issues. Martina's extensive knowledge and experience helped me realize I'm actually an introverted HSP who was overextended my whole life. Martina possesses an amazing combination of professional acumen, education, and intuition...not to mention a great sense of humor! I have experienced a deeply meaningful, profound shift in my personal and professional life. I am now on a healthy and fulfilling path towards achieving my professional goals and my spiritual life's purpose!
Melinda T. ~ Sales Executive
I have worked with Martina for years, first to process some hidden trauma in my past, and now to help me realize my full potential as an artist and entrepreneur. I went to her thinking something was wrong with me, but she helped me slowly and thoroughly shift that false belief and discover the wealth of feeling and sensitivity innate to my being. All my life, I had been led to believe my sensitivity was a problem. But through working with Martina, I've come to understand what a gift my deeply feeling nature really is, that it gives me true access to myself and the beautiful world around me.
Frieda M. ~Artist & Entrepreneur
I feel so blessed to have found Martina! As an HSP, I found other coaches lacking in understanding the depth and intensity of my processing. Martina affirmed and acknowledged my situation, my unique needs as an HSP, empath, and spiritual woman. She has helped me meet and fall in love with parts of myself that I did not know even existed. She has given me the tools I needed to strengthen my sense of Self as an adult in the world. I will continue to recommend her to anyone who is ready to do the deep inner work of healing and growth!
Carol S. ~ Spiritual Director
Martina has quite literally been a lifesaver. She has taught me that my traits as an introvert and HSP are not things I need to hide from the world, but rather assets that the world needs. Martina has many gifts. She is intuitive, funny, and truly sees me. I trust her deeply, and because of that I have been able to reach the deepest and truest parts of myself- parts I didn't even know were there. I am now on a beautiful journey to a purposeful, happier, and healthier life.
Renee M. ~ Professor
My conversations with Martina are some of the most fascinating, empowering, enlightening conversations I’ve had regarding my own personal untapped potential. When I say Martina is a master intuitive, I don’t mean that she’s an “empath,” like you hear so many people say. Martina is the real deal. Martina has a wealth of experience, formal training, and skill in INTUITIVE DECISION-MAKING. In short, she’s the kind of powerhouse who can help you get off the fence, and back into the game. Even if you feel like up is down and left is right, and you have no idea which way to go.
